I heard a radio ad for a Marriage Fitness website. There is a really interesting free assessment here.
Now, I’ll warn you that they are trying to sell you something, but they also have sent me about 7 emails for free. They stress that they are not marriage counselors (which they loathe), but rather help you maintain a healthy marriage. They give you some “marriage exercises” which help get your marriage in shape.
Anyway, me and my wife took the long assessment, and it was quite interesting. I’m a little embarrassed how bad I did–my wife did better. So, I’ve tried a few exercises, and it seems to have helped. So, whether you’re marriage is healthy, not, or somewhere in between (like me), I recommend doing some of the free stuff–I think it is worth it. Even if your marriage is great, I think there is some really good advice here.
Comments? Anybody have any good real practical advice? (Those work better for me than generic things like “Treat her nice, Love her”, etc.)